When the World Is Falling Apart, Plant Something

Morning Glory from my own garden

A meaningful life needs more than resistance to what is wrong. It also needs an affirmative vision of what is good, beautiful, and worth preserving.

Orwell's Roses by Rebecca Solnit explores an interesting contrast between George Orwell's political side and his love of gardening. I finished the book today and wanted to share some of the thoughts it has left me with.

I read 1984 last year and, by the end, was both shocked and numbed by how closely it mirrors the attacks on language I see unfolding in the US today, along with so many other unsettling parallels. However, while he was confronting some of the darkest aspects of human nature, he was also making room in his life for the simple, tangible work of growing things. And not only things that nourished physically, like fruit trees, but also roses. And a flower's beauty nourishes something entirely different. 

Maybe that's part of what drew me to this book. Over the past two years, I've been gardening. When the world feels overwhelming, there has been something grounding for me to focus on tending to living things and creating a little beauty in the midst of it all. 

In the book, a story of Helen Todd and "Bread and Roses" strummed my heart. The idea is that people deserve more than just the bare necessities of survival. In 1910, Todd, an American factory inspector and women's suffrage activist, was campaigning for women's right to vote. She later recalled a conversation with a young woman named Maggie, whose family had hosted her during the campaign. When asked what she remembered most from the speeches, Maggie said it was the idea that women voting could help ensure that, "everybody would have bread...and flowers too." The phrase is said to have evolved into "Bread for all, and Roses too" and may have inspired James Oppenheim's 1911 poem Bread and Roses.

I've been reflecting on a phrase of my own: "Bread for your table, and flowers too." It brings to mind Jesus' words about the lilies of the field. He understood that we worry about the necessities of life, but he also directed our attention to the natural world, reminding us that there is more to living than the struggle to provide for and protect ourselves. Bread sustains us, and I love bread - ha, but beauty, nature, and maybe even the simple act of tending a garden nourish us in other ways. 

Maybe my garden isn't a way of turning away from the world's troubles or pretending they aren't there. It's a way of making room for something beautiful in the midst of them. We should acknowledge what is broken but not forget to nurture what is beautiful. Orwell did. 

Dear Reader, 

May you have bread for your table, and flowers too. 

Other Memorable Ideas from Orwell's Roses:

• Beauty is not a distraction from serious work. It can be part of what makes that work worth doing.

• A garden can be an act of hope. Planting something is a way of investing in a future.

• Political awareness and an appreciation of beauty can coexist. Caring about injustice does not require turning away from life's pleasures.

• The natural world has a value beyond its usefulness to human beings. Not everything needs to justify its existence through productivity.

• The ordinary pleasures of life deserve our attention. Flowers, gardens, and small moments of delight are not trivial simply because they are ordinary.

• Even people who confront the world's darkest realities need sources of joy. Being joyful does not mean someone has retreated from reality.

• Small acts of care can have significance beyond their immediate results. Tending a garden matters even when it changes nothing on a grand external scale.

• Hope is not always grand or dramatic. Sometimes it takes the form of tending something fragile and allowing it to grow.

What is National Women's Equality Day?

Photo of purple, white, and yellow women's suffrage flag flying

On August 26th, the United States celebrates National Women’s Equality Day, honoring the fight for women’s rights that began with the first women’s rights convention in Seneca Falls, New York, in July 1848. Organized by Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucretia Mott, Martha Coffin Wright, Mary Ann M'Clintock, and Jane Hunt, the convention introduced the Declaration of Sentiments. This pivotal document addressed the legal and social inequalities faced by women and called for various reforms, including the right to vote. Frederick Douglass, a supporter of women’s suffrage, also attended. After 72 years of relentless advocacy, the 19th Amendment was ratified on August 18 and certified on August 26. Sadly, none of these pioneering figures actually lived to see this victory.

Please remember to vote in your local and national elections. People dedicated their entire lives for us to have this privilege. Be a voice for women as we continue to fight for respect and autonomy today.

Here are some inspiring quotes by Lucretia Mott:

"The great truth which the world has yet to learn is that the equality of men and women is essential to the peace and progress of the world."

"The true remedy for the injustices of woman’s condition is that all men should become as just and benevolent as women have been long forced to be."

Facing Our Hatred: Hazlitt’s 1826 Warning for Modern America

I’ve been curious about what Jane Austen—or her character Elizabeth Bennet—might have read, so I researched works published during the Regency era. In this process, I found William Hazlitt’s essay, On the Pleasure of Hating, published in 1826, which offers insights that feel eerily relevant today.

Hazlitt argues that people often take pleasure in hating, and this hatred seeps into everything—from religion to patriotism to morality. Instead of promoting love or unity, these ideas become excuses for attacking others. He suggests that patriotism is less about love for one’s country and more about hating perceived invaders. Similarly, religion is often used to criticize others instead of fostering self-improvement. Hazlitt warns that society masks selfishness and intolerance as "public spirit and opinion," turning people into oppressors or passive followers.

His words resonate with an uncomfortable truth: hatred can corrupt noble ideals—whether in religion, patriotism, or virtue. Initially, I felt disheartened by America's ongoing struggles with these issues. However, I now see this insight as a call to action. By acknowledging our tendency to find pleasure in hatred, we can take steps to overcome it. Let’s confront these darker aspects of ourselves and others, encouraging compassion, understanding, and dialogue. In this way, Hazlitt's cautionary tale can serve as a roadmap for healing and fostering genuine connections.

Here are direct quotes:

"The pleasure of hating, like a poisonous mineral, eats into the heart of religion, and turns it to rankling spleen and bigotry; it makes patriotism an excuse for carrying fire, pestilence, and famine into other lands: it leaves to virtue nothing but the spirit of censoriousness, and a narrow, jealous, inquisitorial watchfulness over the actions and motives of others. What have the different sects, creeds, doctrines in religion been but so many pretexts set up for men to wrangle, to quarrel, to tear one another in pieces about, like a target as a mark to shoot at? Does any one suppose that the love of country in an Englishman implies any friendly feeling or disposition to serve another bearing the same name? No, it means only hatred to the French or the inhabitants of any other country that we happen to be at war with for the time. Does the love of virtue denote any wish to discover or amend our own faults? No, but it atones for an obstinate adherence to our own vices by the most virulent intolerance to human frailties. This principle is of a most universal application. It extends to good as well as evil: if it makes us hate folly, it makes us no less dissatisfied with distinguished merit. If it inclines us to resent the wrongs of others, it impels us to be as impatient of their prosperity. We revenge injuries: we repay benefits with ingratitude... Instead of patriots and friends of freedom, I see nothing but the tyrant and the slave, the people linked with kings to rivet on the chains of despotism and superstition. I see folly join with knavery, and together make up public spirit and public opinions."
Read the essay here: "On the Pleasure of Hating"

 

Warning: Social Media Is Distorting Your Newsfeed

My husband and I have noticed a shift on socials. We lean politically opposite on different topics, and despite algorithms claiming to show us content we like, we now see a lot of angry, opposing viewpoints. For example, since I follow Democrat content, I now get far-right posts about how much Republicans hate me, and my husband gets posts about how much Democrats hate Republicans. This sudden shift, especially on TikTok, is concerning. Just a heads-up to be aware: companies can slant and control what you see. This becomes rampant near elections because making people angry increases interactions, which boosts profits. As we've seen in past elections, Russia and China have tried to negatively impact our elections and shift our perspectives.

Staying S.A.N.E. During Election Season: Vote & Chill

Image 1. shows a woman voting. Image 2. shows same woman at home relaxing.

Welcome to my little survival guide for navigating the treacherous waters of the upcoming election season. In this post, we'll explore some easy strategies for keeping our cool while the U.S. political sphere spins around. Here is my simple acronym to remind us to take care of ourselves: S.A.N.E.

Sane: (adjective) Having a healthy mind; showing good judgment and understanding.

I've never seen so many of us red-faced as with our highly charged political climate. Anxiety is rampant even before casting our votes or awaiting results. This year, I'm taking a different approach. Once I've chosen the candidates I will vote for [see below], I'm shifting my focus back to my life. America is full of stressed-out people sharing memes, articles, and engaging in debates. While I've done my fair share in the past, this year it feels fruitless so instead I will make my decisions, vote, and chill. 

Here's how I hope to keep my sanity:

S - Shut Off: Unplugging for Mental Health

In the midst of political noise, I will disconnect. I will set boundaries to limit news and social media. Instead, I have decided to engage in more offline activities and rediscover some hobbies or try some new ones.

A - Actively Disengage Arguments: Navigating Political Discourse

I will still challenge divisive rhetoric by helping to cultivate empathy for differing viewpoints but I will also exercise my right to say that I've made my decisions and don't want to engage in further discussions. I want to navigate political discourse with grace and encourage those around me to be mature and do the same.

N - Nurture My Body: Engaging in Physical Activity & Fresh Food

I will take care of my physical well-being by engaging in some consistent exercise. Whether it's a brisk walk or Qigong, I know that physical activity helps reduce stress, improve mood, and boost overall health. Also, I have to make sure I am really nourishing myself with the right foods. Sometimes when stressed, I will go for an easy option that is not always the best for me.

E - Embrace Appreciation, My Family & Friends

I will focus more on being thankful for the great things in my life. I want to reflect and express gratitude for little things and cherished moments much more. Refocusing on my life, family, and my personal well-being is healthy.

I can hear naysayers' question, "But what if the election results are unfavorable and democracy seems to be at risk?" Then, my friend, you can adopt the following plan with me! No matter your political leaning, if the election goes poorly for the US you can:

* Stay Informed * Get Involved in Advocacy Groups * Contact Representatives *
* Support Legal Challenges * Stay United with Advocates *

Ultimately, even if some people label my S.A.N.E. goal as selfish, I know in my spirit that my mental and physical health are vital aspects of my life right now. I hope you too will prioritize your own well-being too. ❤️

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*Side note: let's not forget that the US Presidential election is only one position we are voting for! These other elections are so important. 

U.S. Senate: Approximately one-third of the 100 seats in the Senate will be up for election. 

U.S. House of Representatives: All 435 seats will be up for election, as they are every two years. 

Governors: Several states will hold gubernatorial elections. 

State Legislatures: Many states will have elections for their state legislatures, including both upper and lower houses. 

Local Offices: Various local positions, such as mayors, city council members, and school board members, will also be on the ballot. 

Ballot Measures: Voters in some states may also be asked to vote on various ballot measures and referendums.

Understanding US Political Factions

Unity in Liberty: A Patriotic Handshake - art by Silver Trumpets
*see more info below

Understanding different viewpoints benefits all Americans. It's damaging for us to have an 'all or nothing' belief system. Political plurality, which acknowledges diverse perspectives within parties, reminds us that individuals who vote for one party (example, Republican or Democrat) may hold varying beliefs than others who voted the same. It's important to recognize the variety of perspectives within both major political parties and to not let politicians, media, or others oversimplify complex issues. 

Political parties are full of factions. Many bring valuable viewpoints, so to break down some common dichotomous thinking, below I’m sharing a list of party factions, their ideology, and some well-known politicians that tend to align themselves with those goals. This table is impartial and is not all encompassing. Some people can lean towards multiple groups within a political party. After the table are examples of issues politicians and voters tend to oversimplify within politics. My goal in sharing this is for all of us to grow in our understanding and avoid pigeonholing other people based on oversimplified labels or assumptions.

I decided to pull together all this information directly due to my current reading, "My Dear Hamilton: A Novel of Eliza Schuyler Hamilton" by Stephanie Dray. US political parties in the 18th century, like those of today, were not immune to oversimplifying complex issues. Political factions such as the Federalists and the Democratic-Republicans engaged in vigorous debates over issues such as the structure of government, states' rights, and foreign policy. These debates often involved oversimplified arguments and rhetoric aimed at rallying support for one side or the other. Additionally, political pamphlets, newspapers, and speeches of the time frequently employed oversimplification to appeal to a broader audience and sway public opinion.

Oversimplification of issues can hinder productive dialogue and effective policy making. Some examples that should put you on alert when you hear or read them: 

• Immigration: Reducing immigration debates to slogans like "build a wall" or "open borders" overlooks the complex factors driving migration and the nuanced solutions required.

• Healthcare: Framing healthcare debates as "repeal and replace" or "Medicare for all" fails to address the challenges within the healthcare system, such as insurance coverage and cost control.

• Climate Change: Generalizing climate change as a debate between "believers" and "deniers" neglects the scientific consensus and the multifaceted solutions needed to mitigate its impacts.

• Firearms: Polarizing gun debates as a choice between "gun rights" and "gun control" overlooks the complex interplay between Second Amendment rights and public safety concerns.

• Foreign Policy: Oversimplifying debates as "military intervention" vs. "appeasement" neglects diplomatic and economic approaches to international conflicts and keeping stability.

My main hope for this post is to help us better embrace a nuanced understanding of political factions to avoid oversimplifying labels and issues. Instead, let's acknowledge the complexity and avoid common one-sided thinking because that damages so many of our relationships. 

* Side note: I had a hard time selecting the best art for this post. I love the one above because of their eye contact and strength. However, the one below is so beautiful and inspiring, I had to include it too! In case you didn't know, since the donkey and elephant were based in satirical comics, in my research, often Democrats are represented by Lady Liberty and Republicans by a bald eagle. I loved these representations much more since both are equally historically rich and inspiring US symbols. 

United Vision: Lady Liberty and the Bald Eagle - art by Silver Trumpets

Silent Recession: Inflation's Quiet Stranglehold

Microsoft Stock Photo

In the realm of economics, some downturns don't make headlines, and their impact often remains hidden beneath the surface. These are "silent recessions" periods of economic stress that don't manifest in the dramatic ways we've come to associate with traditional recessions. However, the impact can be just as significant for those of us who are struggling.

When we read the term "recession," our thoughts often imagine chaotic stock markets, surging unemployment rates, and news headlines dominated by financial turmoil. However, the concept of a silent recession remains somewhat unfamiliar, mainly because most of us keep our financial matters quiet, especially when there are difficulties. The silence intensifies as those around us appear unaffected and also refrain from discussing their own struggles. Nevertheless, I'm here to break that silence and address these issues openly. Food, gas, and basic utility prices are ridiculous right now. Recently I went into my neighborhood Goodwill to look for gently used organizational items. I thought I was being frugal but was shocked to see that even their current pricing was higher than if I bought the items brand new at a Dollar General (or Round to the Dollar stores, as I like to call them).

Here are some ways a silent recession shows itself:

1. Stagnant Wages: People might be working, but since the pandemic, many of us have had to go without raises and we can't keep up with rising costs. While inflation might not be out of control enough to make national news, wages aren't really keeping up with the rising costs of essentials like housing and healthcare. 
   
   
2. Growing Inequality: Economic growth doesn't necessarily mean equitable growth. Even as economic indicators like GDP growth suggest overall expansion, the subtle erosion of economic stability deepens the gap between the affluent and the disadvantaged, amplifying disparities.
   
   
3. Lack of Savings: Escalating living costs can quickly deplete financial reserves, leaving families exposed to unforeseen expenses like medical bills or sudden job losses. People begin living on a "bare bones" budget each month. The absence of savings magnifies the challenges. 

Behind every economic statistic, there's a personal story. The struggle to make ends meet can lead to stress, mental health challenges, and a diminished quality of life. Addressing silent recessions requires a shift in focus from just "economic indicators" shares to the actual well-being of individuals. We all know how vital it is to support organizations that advocate for living wages and the social safety-net programs, like unemployment assistance and welfare, which are lifelines for individuals and families navigating economic downturns. However, we also need to recognize and dismantle any stigmas associated with seeking help during economic uncertainties.

Most of us are feeling the impact of higher grocery bills, adult children facing soaring housing costs, and the unpredictability of fluctuating gas prices. What weighs heaviest on my mind today, however, is the critical importance of bridging the gap between data and lived experiences. Together, we must ensure this recession isn't hidden in silence. My friend and I have been openly discussing the challenges we face in our economy then exchanging tips and strategies to help each other navigate this time. Won't you join us?

Ultimately, addressing silent recessions extends beyond mere acknowledgment; it encompasses the sharing of knowledge and resources while nurturing a sense of community so that we can mitigate the impact on our families and safeguard the well-being of our neighbors.

Widen Your Circle

Sculptures: Sea glass, stone & drift wood 

Ponder this.

Most of the people in your life are probably NOT on the farthest extreme of their beliefs, political or other.

I was looking at those I love in my life, both friends and family, and the fact is they are all fairly middle of the road. I find it to be a waste of time discussing the politicians we support or despise. What really matters are the ideas and values we carry but most importantly, what we do in our individual lives to make change for the better.

Most conservatives I know have faith, love their families and their community. Most liberals I know have faith, love their families and their community. Society, in my personal opinion, has become too enamored with labels and this is to our cost. You are too complex a human to have a label define you completely and when you use a label to define others you minimize them too.

The relationship with the love of my life is a fantastic example of why labels do not work. My fella and I could stand toe-to-toe opposite each other politically. (and we have) But neither of us wear rose colored glasses about the government or the fact that both sides have very rich and corrupt people. We are able to stand side-by-side together in our relationship because we trust each others heart. Our core values match and our ethics are completely on the same page. We love each other and see each other as SO much more than our political labels.

I wrote all the above with this hope: That you'll stop labeling so many people as "enemy" or wrong. And most of all, that you'll stop making a judgement about others based solely on labels. Honestly, I'm guilty this and am working to change.

Now is the perfect time to Love wide, Pray wide, and Widen your circle.

As the short poem goes:

"He drew a circle that shut me out

- Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.

But love and I had the wit to win:

We drew a circle and took him In!"

-Edwin Markham