Darcy's Touchstones & My Manifesto

My AI Impressionistic Portrait of Mr. Darcy

This month, I’ve been reflecting on Mr. Darcy, otherwise known as Fitzwilliam Darcy from Pride and Prejudice. Darcy’s journey is one of transformation—he begins reserved and proud but evolves into a man who lets his guard down and takes a risk for love and honor. His character arc reminds me that I've also had to release my "high ideals" about life and my place in it. 

Recently, I dedicated an evening to writing a Darcy Reflections letter. I creatively crafted the page by stamping a title and added flourishes then handwrote highlights of my character changes over the last 20+ years. I've come a long way, baby! My own “prejudices and pride” (whether in thought, actions, or assumptions) have definitely given way to a more open heart and mind.

I also created a personal manifesto to serve as a touchstone for me. (See below) I found this process to be a beautiful one so if you want to write your own manifesto, then check out this post for a guide.

Anyway, I hope you will also spend time reflecting on your own growth and celebrate that. Then perhaps, you'll join me in writing a manifesto of the values you want to guide you and embody. The fact that we can grow and change, I believe, is one of the reasons the author crafted Mr. Darcy's character in this way. Thank you, Jane Austen!