Whispers to Seeds: Our Garden's Quiet Beginnng

As I putter around my garden, whispering sweet prayers over my seedlings, they soak in the soil, water, and my gentle hopes for our future to be filled with beauty and bounty.
In my "Barkyard garden," I find a distraction from the noise of the world in a sanctuary where my spirit can hold onto hope and not get disheartened.

 

 

I think it started after my pecan trees produced a bumper crop. Inspired by having so many, this year I’m starting a garden! My hope is that it will help provide for my family. I’ve started small with seeds in little pots and a seed starting tray after doing a TON of research for my area. Prayerfully I'll be transferring them into my raised garden beds and planters in a month or so. My goals are to bring beauty into my backyard while supplementing our grocery budget by growing some of our own fruits and vegetables. With rising food costs, I hope to reduce our dependency on store-bought goods a little. If not by this year, then by 2026.

Honestly, I’ve been nervous about whether anything will actually grow, especially after a disappointing container gardening experience many years ago. Lately I've been reminding myself that there are no guarantees in gardening and that it’s okay if this doesn’t work. I'm trying to embrace the process, no matter the harvest? Each seed I plant does feel like an act of faith and a prayer for the future, even as I speak encouraging whispers into the soil.

I've started most from seed which have begun pushing through soil with the help of my grow lights (except strawberries, which I’ll buy and transplant). Watching them growing has been rewarding and as they've begun to push through the soil, my confidence grows too. 

Below is what I’m growing this year. I have two, side by side 4 ft long, 2ft across, and 1 ft deep raised garden beds and surrounding planters:

• Ace 55 Tomatoes
• Green Beans: Bush variety
• Ground Cherries
• Pickling Cucumbers (hoping to jar pickles with my grandma’s recipe)
• Lettuce: Summer Crisp & Red Romaine
• Edamame
• Broccoli
• Eggplant
  
• Carrots & Radishes
  
• Strawberries (in my grandma's terracotta pot too)

Have you ever heard of companion planting? I've been studying that too. I'll be planing these next items in and around the garden because they are said to help with pollination and pest control:

• Basil (companion to tomatoes)
  
• Mammoth Sunflowers
• Marigolds (champion of gardeners) & Cosmos flowers
  
• Dill & Chives
  

Now, naming my garden was tough. I wanted something that would make me smile! So, below are a few photos of the humble beginnings of the "Barkyard Garden." The "bark" is of course a nod to Branch, our black lab, and Gunner, our Dutch Shepherd's along with a playful take on the word "backyard," since that's where the garden is located and the pups outside domain.

So may God bless the Barkyard Garden as it grows, in its own way, and me as it nurtures my patience, hope, and trust in the harvest to come - not only in food but my character.

 

Will fill with soil in March!

My Grandma's Strawberry Pot

Women's Quarter: Dr. Mary Edwards Walker

I was at Aldi's returning my cart when a sweet woman came up to me and said, "Here! Take my quarter." It turned out to be one I hadn't seen before—the Dr. Mary Edwards Walker US quarter. Oh yay!

Mary Edwards Walker made history as the first female surgeon in the U.S. Army during the Civil War, where she served as a unpaid, contract surgeon despite women being barred from the military. Born in 1832, she earned her medical degree from Syracuse Medical College in 1855, one of the few women to do so at the time. During the war, she worked tirelessly for the Union, even being captured by Confederate forces and held as a prisoner of war for several months. She was released during a prisoner swap. In 1865, Walker was awarded the Medal of Honor for her bravery. The U.S. War Department revoked it in 1917 for not meeting the military criteria, but it was restored by Congress in 1977 after a long campaign by historians and advocates who argued that her service and achievements were deserving of the recognition. According to the Smithsonian Institution, she remains the only American Woman to receive the military decoration.

Mary was also a passionate advocate for women's rights, especially when it came to dress reform. She rejected the restrictive clothing of her time and championed the right for women to wear more practical attire, like pants. 

On a side note, I'd like express gratitude for women like Mary Edwards Walker, Amelia Bloomer, and Elizabeth Smith Miller, all of whom played pivotal roles in advocating for more practical, less restrictive clothing for women!

Walker's defiance of gender norms extended to her personal and professional life, where her choices often clashed with society’s expectations. Her unconventional lifestyle, including her decision to wear men's clothing, contributed to the breakdown of her marriage to Albert Miller, who struggled with her defiance of societal norms.

Mary passed away on February 21, 1919, at the age of 87 in Oswego, New York. What an extraordinary life she led—one marked by being a prisoner of war, a relentless defiance of societal norms, and an unwavering commitment to helping others through her medical work. Her story inspires me! Unfortunately, her quote rings true: we often wait too long to recognize great people. But perhaps this little post will help bring her remarkable story to light just a bit more.

Located on her statue by the entrance of Oswego Town Hall

Holloman Air Force Base display

Post Civil War - "reform dress"-shortened dress with bloomer pants

Circa 1911 - often seen in a man's top coat and hat